Your own closure

Look into the hurt that comes up for you at this time.
Look deep into it.
Follow it back to where it stems from.
Ask your inner child to express itself.
Dont try to analyze or give a mature answer.
Let your inner child give a raw emotional explanation of its hurt.
What do you feel was lacking for you
Did you need to be held, heard, loved, not abandoned, not hurt?
Which parts are still hurting until this day?
Can you see a resemblance between what hurts you today and what has hurt you as a child?
We attract to ourselves similar situations to help heal these wounds.
But we cannot fully heal them until we go deep into them.
As you allow your inner child to answer its totally OK to burst into tears. You need to walk into and through this.
Whatever you feel was and is still lacking, offer it to yourself.
Hold yourself in much love, care and warmth, that which you have needed.
Be totally there for yourself before you wish again for someone to fill this gap. Gain closure with yourself.
Now look at those who have initially dissapointed you. Take a good look at them. Can you see their own unresolved pain? Can you see how they felt all alone in their own struggle not knowing how to heal or who to turn to?
Today you are here to heal for yourself, for them, and for your whole lineage, breaking the cycle and learning how to love oneself and heal so as not to continue any harmful destructive cycle for ourselves and for others around us. This is Huge. And this is why this journey feels long and complex. Your role, the one you chose to take upon yourself is sacred and so beneficial to all of humanity. Do not take this lightly.
To the extent you are willing to truly visit any unresolved hurt is the extent to which you will be allowing yourself to heal.
Look to give yourself all you need, have compassion for yourself as well as for those that hurt you. Forgive them for they have done what they could. Allow them their own journey and focus on fully loving and healing yourself to gain the closure you need and to become the beacon of light that you are.
Much love
Mia
*Note:Dont hesitate to reach for professional help if you feel you need.

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